Does Playing Hard To Get Actually Work?

Attracting women is, in large part, a game that is played between the pursuer and the pursued, between one interested member and another. Playing hard to get is often thought of as a female trick, based largely on the fact that, for much of history, females truly were hard to get through means other than payment or marriage, and also because playing hard to get is often an effective way of gaining male attention and interest and eventually hooking up with or dating such men, while at the same time maintaining a reputation as not being “easy” – something seen as desirable for many women and certainly more desirable for women than men.

Furthermore, playing hard to get, for women, can make them more desirable simply based on the fact that they are being hard to get and are therefore setting themselves apart from other girls who might not seem as special. The answer to the question: “Does playing hard to get work for women?” would most likely be yes. A more interesting question, however, is “Does playing hard to get work on women?”

So what is the answer? Does playing hard to get work on women? In short, it can, but it might have a much lower chance of success coming from a man. Men tend to be viewed as easy, and playing hard to get on a woman is much more likely to make her think you are simply not interested at all. Furthermore, playing hard to get on a girl forces her to be the initiator and/or the more forward member in terms of getting you guys together, something that many more girls than guys are uncomfortable with.

However, as stated above, the answer to the question of “does playing hard to get work on women” is at least partially a yes. Playing hard to get, above all, helps solve the biggest problem men have in attracting women: seeming desperate and, as a result, not confident. When you pursue a girl very obviously it can be seen as a sign that you are needy and desperate, and this is never a helpful thing. When you play hard to get, you eliminate this problem by seeming, on the contrary, not desperate at all.

Another reason why playing hard to get works for women is because it makes you seem confident and at least somewhat mysterious and alluring. Playing hard to get naturally leads to the assumption that you are somehow worth putting effort into getting. This makes you seem very confident, as only someone who knew they could be successful getting girls in this manner would attempt to play such games. It also makes you seem mysterious and alluring, as the woman will not know why you’ve ascribed such value to yourself. Seeming this way, and seeming confident, are very attractive and can therefore help be successful in getting women.

I Want To Find True Love

relaxed_lovers2742-475x229Do you want to find that person who completes you? What does she need to have to make you a more complete person? In order to find true love, you want to find someone that is going to be your friend, lover, and a person who will help to make you a better person.

The yin to your yang…

When you are looking for true love, you want to find a person that complements who you are. For example, you may be a creative person who is great at expressing emotions, but may not be the best at keeping order and being disciplined.

Your ideal partner would be someone who is disciplined and structured, but lacks a sense of creativity. She may have lacked a bit of social skill, but you were able to complete her. Together as one, you would be perfect. Her organizational skills with your creativity combine to make the ideal couple.

Get yourself out there…

If you want to find true love, you can’t expect it to come knocking on your door. You need to get out there and date as many girls and have as many interactions with girls as you can. The more girls you interact with, the greater chance you have of finding that special someone.

If you want to find your ideal partner, it’s a great idea to write down what you believe are your core strengths. What are the things that you’re really good at? What are the things that you struggle with? Then, alongside that, you should take a note of what you find most attractive in a girl.

Active sex life…

Romance is fantastic, but an active sex life is also a strong feature of a happy relationship. If you can, give your girl multiple orgasms all night and make her want more. If you do, then you need to last longer in bed. There are a couple of key things that you can use if you want to really increase your ability in the bedroom. You want to have complete control. You want to last longer and you do not want to leave her disappointed because you came too early.

First of all, you should start to increase the amount of foreplay that you do together. Rather than just rushing through foreplay and going straight into the main event, take your time and really savor the foreplay element of sex.

Lasting longer…

A great way of lasting longer during sex is to put her on top. By putting her on top, it actually decreases your sensation so you can last a lot longer and she is left feeling more satisfied. Because the sensation is less for you, you can control those thoughts in your mind and eliminate them from distracting you and inhibiting your ability to perform in the bedroom.

Finally, I recommend practicing the Maxwell technique. The Maxwell technique is a great way to not only last longer but to enjoy multiple orgasms. You can find the Maxwell technique online, and it consists of a 30-minute video that explains how to last longer and achieve multiple orgasms while keep her fulfilled all night long.